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As an astrologer and Tarot card reader, I get asked questions about love–a lot! It seems that this is what everyone wants to know. Does he / she love me, will we get back together, when will I find someone, will I ever marry; read through the answers on the site, and you’ll see that most people want to know about their relationship. Many of my clients are worried that they’re not going to find love, that they will be alone for the rest of their lives–but I rarely see that in my tarot or the astrology charts. It’s possible for nearly anyone to find love right now, but you have to be prepared to do the work if you want to see this become a reality.
So, what do you have to do? Well, most people are waiting for the perfect partner to swoop them off their feet, but they’re not working on being the perfect partner. It’s going to be hard to find someone to love if you’re not loving yourself. Like energy always attracts like energy.
Have you ever had so much weird stuff happen that you’ve started to wonder is your life haunted? It very well may be–I mean, who really knows what happens beyond the veil? The thing about hauntings and cursings and other supernatural events, though, is that a lot of them are just confirmation bias, and a lot of them are just coincidence. That orb on the photo? Sure, it could be a supernatural presence–or it could just be dust on the camera. But what about things that happen to you with alarming frequency, things that you don’t seem to be able to control. What can you do to help prevent your life from being haunted?
The first thing is always to court a positive mindset. Wherever you place your attention is what you are going to draw into your life. This is because the neuroreceptors in your brain are trained to seek out like energy. The more you want to believe in something, or the more you focus on it, the more you’re going to see it. Confirmation bias means that consciously or not, you’re going to look for information that backs up what you believe. If you believe you’re haunted, or cursed, or that there is supernatural activity around you, then your mind is going to start looking for evidence to support that belief. It’s human nature. In order to start to change that perception, you have to start focusing on something different, and more positive.
Mercury retrograde gets blamed for a lot, particularly when it comes to the ways that people communicate. Did you know, though that this is one of the best times for reuniting with an ex? This phase of Mercury can often can provoke you to reflecting about your romance, and wondering what went wrong, and whether you could do something to make things right. Of course, all this review is well and good, but will retrograde romance rekindle your relationship?
Mercury is the planet of communication, and when it starts its backwards surf through the skies, you are likely to be more reflective, more retrospective about your past. They say hindsight is 20 / 20 vision, and during this period you may be able to see things more clearly, see why things fell apart, and whether there was anything you could have done differently. Keep in mind, that while you’re thinking this about your ex, your ex could well be thinking them about you!
You’ve probably all heard of it: Mercury retrograde. It seems to be a bit of a buzzword these days, and poor old Mercury gets blamed for many things when he turns retrograde. Much of this is a bad rap–Mercury does this around three times a year, so you’d think that with it happening that often, we’d be used to it by now! But no, we blame lost emails and broken relationships and late busses and pretty much everything else on poor old Mercury as he makes his obligatory journey backwards through the skies. However, there are positive sides to this transit, and if you understand what these traits are, you can use them to your advantage to defy difficulties with Mercury’s magic.
Many people approach the retrograde from a fear-based mindset. The first thing that you want to do to make the most of this magical time is to get rid of that. There’s no need to fear something that is a natural part of life–and this retrograde is a natural part of Mercury’s orbit. For one, this is a great time to focus on mental activities, using your mind to draw to you things that you want to see in your life. Because Mercury rules the thought process, it’s a great time to rethink your priorities, and focus only on what is most important to you.